Another fork stuck in the road...

Let's see.... so you take my advice in one ear and out the other, and you're basically just too stubborn to listen to what I have to say. I was quite annoyed, irritated, frustrated, short-fused, and last but not least disappointed.
I hope you realize that if you keep this up, history is going to repeat itself.
Like father, like son huh? I'm sure you would want to call that "bonding" but it's not.
So who are you to tell me that I can't handle it? I took that quite offensively... How are you going to hurt me or my feelings by telling me the truth about that subject or whatever it is? I'm not a child... It's you that's the child. At least I did my part to contribute in my family and I'm pretty sure I've had it so much more worse than what you have now or even have had. At least you grew up with both your parents, I don't even know who my father is... At least you didn't have to move so much and see your mom with with different people. At least you haven't had your life turned upside down caused by one peer. At least, and fortunately for you, you haven't had your heart fucked over and over again. And so much more. I am 1,000,000% sure that I've been through worse than you. How are you... and... Who are you to tell me that I can't handle it? I faced my problems, unlike you, I drove to find a solution that will make things better, not use them as an excuse to just ignore it and quit. Look at my living situation now. Do you think I'm absolutely happy with it? No... I'm not but I can't just tell my mom that, can I? I can't just blame her for all the bad events that lead up to this. The only thing I can do is to make things easier for her, including: helping her clean, taking care of my brother, run errands, and just helping her when he needs it. Our relationship used to be like war. Every other day we would argue, if not, once a week, it would get so bad that I would punch walls out of frustration. Every week, it's just tears and tears and no solution because we were both stubborn too. It just takes time for one another to understand from both views. You and I both know that we're strong and independent so again, why would you say that? Are you thinking that's going to protect me? WRONG. So wrong. You are an idiot if you think that. Before you came into my life, and even now, I took care of myself and my family. Even without you, I'd be where I am now in my relationships with my family and my close friends. But I'm pretty sure you know your family alot better than I do, obviously, but you have no hope for them at all, and that's sad. When you bring out your arguments and excuses to me, it seems like you're so sure that they're that way and how they react like that all the time. Is it a fact that they're always that way or going to be that way? Facts leave no room for possibilities. They're not robots... they're human. There's always going to be changes, I guess not now but eventually it gets there. Could be a good or bad change depending on how you approach and help it. There are always possibilities of change. You're just so caught up in your pride or what not to take that stand for the sake of your family.
You just choose not to do anything. Too much brain, not enough heart.
Seize the opportunities with open arms, but still be cautious....

I apologize for even thinking about discussing that subject with you. I just thought you would've wanted a change for the better. And yes, I do think it's my place to encourage you and talk things out with you about it because I'm your girlfriend. But from now on, I just won't say anything about it to upset you. It's your problem right? ... If you don't want my help, so be it.